Go light. Go fluff. Heartsie makes excellent points on not sticking on the same topic too long.
Day Bang advocates rather than interviewing her, go for the ramble and small bait/large bait structure where you entice her to start asking you questions instead.
Women don't have a true nature you can discover with a few clever questions. Because there is no true nature. Who they are is very situational and depends on who they're with at the moment.
Just work on being the cool guy they can be freaky with. How they are with everyone else or who they were in the past or who they were in their Second Grade Class Play doesn't matter. You create a new them through force of personality.
Day Bang advocates rather than interviewing her, go for the ramble and small bait/large bait structure where you entice her to start asking you questions instead.
Women don't have a true nature you can discover with a few clever questions. Because there is no true nature. Who they are is very situational and depends on who they're with at the moment.
Just work on being the cool guy they can be freaky with. How they are with everyone else or who they were in the past or who they were in their Second Grade Class Play doesn't matter. You create a new them through force of personality.
"Alpha children wear grey. They work much harder than we do, because they're so frightfully clever. I'm awfully glad I'm a Beta, because I don't work so hard. And then we are much better than the Gammas and Deltas. Gammas are stupid. They all wear green, and Delta children wear khaki. Oh no, I don't want to play with Delta children. And Epsilons are still worse. They're too stupid to be able to read or write. Besides they wear black, which is such a beastly color. I'm so glad I'm a Beta."
--Aldous Huxley, Brave New World