Im in Suriname now, a former Dutch colony where everyone still speaks Dutch. Last night i went on my first of 3 nights out. The girls are stunning here by the way. Suriname has a mixed population of Indians,chinese, indonesian, bush indian, africans and the like. There were quite a few lightskinned hotties around and two girls i consider an 8. They were from javanese (indonesia) decent.
Anyway, unlike in neighbouring country Guyana finding girls was not a problem. It was the Dutch language.
I'm a dutch speaker myself so it would seem i could really express myself. But back in Holland i was a shy guy/beta having LTR's not used to gaming. I improved massively in the last 2.5 years while traveling and learning some game. The last 2.5 years i only spoke english and did all my game learning and picking up/seducing in english.
The last 8 months i have been struggling with the Spanish/portuguese language barrier but now i discovered possibly a new phemonenon.
Reversed Language barrier.
I cant game for shit in Dutch, don't know what to say, i found out what a uncool language Dutch actually is. All the cool icebreakers/funny stuff i used in English doesn't translate to Dutch. It would sound stupid.
I approached one girl in Dutch who showed some interest but i fucked it up. I had instant approach fear and looked like a chump standing around.
I decided to approach girls in English and come up with a bullshit story that i lived in Canada for twelve years and prefer to speak English.
I approached 7 girls with no results because my game was off because of previous instant approach fear. But it sure did feel a lot better.
This will be a problem when i go back to holland in 4 weeks.
Any advice on this ?
Anyway, unlike in neighbouring country Guyana finding girls was not a problem. It was the Dutch language.
I'm a dutch speaker myself so it would seem i could really express myself. But back in Holland i was a shy guy/beta having LTR's not used to gaming. I improved massively in the last 2.5 years while traveling and learning some game. The last 2.5 years i only spoke english and did all my game learning and picking up/seducing in english.
The last 8 months i have been struggling with the Spanish/portuguese language barrier but now i discovered possibly a new phemonenon.
Reversed Language barrier.
I cant game for shit in Dutch, don't know what to say, i found out what a uncool language Dutch actually is. All the cool icebreakers/funny stuff i used in English doesn't translate to Dutch. It would sound stupid.
I approached one girl in Dutch who showed some interest but i fucked it up. I had instant approach fear and looked like a chump standing around.
I decided to approach girls in English and come up with a bullshit story that i lived in Canada for twelve years and prefer to speak English.
I approached 7 girls with no results because my game was off because of previous instant approach fear. But it sure did feel a lot better.
This will be a problem when i go back to holland in 4 weeks.
Any advice on this ?
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