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(11-24-2011 04:22 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

A bit off-topic, but what gives girls bitch shields is exposure to unmoored men. When they start going places where men approach them relentlessly, whether it's a bar or OKCupid, their "self-esteem" goes up. Everyone here likes to pile on betas as the reason for women behaving terribly, but I'd say alphas are at least as guilty, especially in the nightlife scene. Obnoxious behavior within an established relationship may arise because no guy has ever set her straight or called her out. But the frostiness upon approaching is because she gets approached so often. Looking at the girls I've known, there's a pretty consistent inverse relationship between frequency of going out/time spent single, and being nice/modest.

Please expansiate on this. I am not certain that an alpha approach to a lizard would cause her to be frosty. I suspect it's the method in the approach. By not allowing her to become enamoured off of the attention and setting her correct when she shows signs of flaking from the onset, don't you think this discourages flaking from lizards?

I mean NYC lizards are down and other American cities are down. Dudes approach a lot there (can I get some input from NYC hunters?) but I don't believe that it impacts the attitude in the lizards, no?