I'm trying to get a sense of where I should be with game.
I'm pretty sure that there are at least three stages, but would be curious to know if there are any others. I think it's good to break this down to know what to expect at each level.
Learning: finding out about the ideas, becoming aware that game exists.
Seeing yourself fucking up / making improvements game.. you watch your beta habits in action as you fuck up with girls, and then slowly start to get more "lucky." This can be painful because you are watching yourself fuck up and you know it, as you do it. But, you know that it's not the end of the world and you learn from the mistakes.
Bone game: You've internalized all the concepts, have burned yourself enough to not repeat mistakes and are living as a natural. You have no choice but to to be good.
I'm pretty sure that there are at least three stages, but would be curious to know if there are any others. I think it's good to break this down to know what to expect at each level.
Learning: finding out about the ideas, becoming aware that game exists.
Seeing yourself fucking up / making improvements game.. you watch your beta habits in action as you fuck up with girls, and then slowly start to get more "lucky." This can be painful because you are watching yourself fuck up and you know it, as you do it. But, you know that it's not the end of the world and you learn from the mistakes.
Bone game: You've internalized all the concepts, have burned yourself enough to not repeat mistakes and are living as a natural. You have no choice but to to be good.