Quote: (11-01-2011 04:05 AM)XXL Wrote:
there is more tension in the interaction, the first impression is super strong and feel more like a man basically just unapologetically doing what the fuck you want. one big key to this is strong frame aka being able to hold the tension and deal with it properly cause now your balls are on the line. it's like 'all eyes on you' instantly like you're playing leading role in a movie or something and people watch you and see every little weakness. and of course the whole thing can be done really subtle (like deep eye contact or stepping up a bit closer) but still the message is clear and we both know what's up.
I love this paragraph. I agree 100%.
Quote: (11-01-2011 04:05 AM)XXL Wrote:
so basically
1) it's awesome screening tool and saves time so much and 2) when it hooks it hooks super solid. the tone is set we both know what's up there's no ambiguity.
We operate the same way. Direct and unapologetic. If she likes it, she likes it. If she doesn't, she doesn't.