Quote: (10-20-2011 04:32 AM)OldRich Wrote:that shit doesn't sound like playing to win at all to me. that is more of "i'm trying to look cool" thing.
How far would you go to close the deal? would you lie about your age your profession or would you even make up stories to seal the deal?
playing to win.. is going hard, cutting through the bullshit and expressing your interest from the get go. just by that girls know that you have no inhibitions and you are 'dangerous' guy who has what it takes to get her. you're the "real deal" guy. this is huge for screening and it saves soooo much time.
and it's best to SUBCOMMUNICATE all of that. on verbal level it's just flirt.
so it's like:
- you go hard (because of man-woman relation)
- it hooks (because of buyer-seller dynamic)
- you focus on receptive girl(s)
- you lead