Let me start off by saying that I'm still at a newbie level with night game. I've barely gotten a number close and no make outs yet. BUT, I really think I've made some significant progress recently.
First, let me bring up "negging." If any of you have ever read anything by Mystery or Neil Strauss, you should already understand the purpose and usage of the "neg."
Basic example of Mystery's negs:
"where's her off button."
"wow, you just poop words."
"Is your hair real? looks nice anyway."
These aren't bad, but I don't think they're really worth remembering. I think negs should be a little more improv, otherwise it comes out awkward. Let me explain. I was at this bar near the campus of the University of Delaware, and I saw this hot, drunk college girl, standing in a cornor, surrounded by 5 older guys that were obviously trying to game her. This was objectively the hottest girl at the bar, by all the attention she was receiving. I weaseled my way in the group (or set) by isolating one guy and just having a chill conversation with him. This brought me into their set.
Soon I was talking to all the guys in this group, 2 guys at a time, just having a chill conversation about where everyone is from. I'm not talking to the hot girl yet though, because I was too distracted by the chill conversation I was having. As a result, I sort of took the spot light away from her. About 4 minutes after talking with the guys I looked at her and used Roosh's line, "you look like you're having more fun than anyone else here." She responded with something, but whatever came out of her mouth just went right through one ear and out the other. I quickly responded with Roosh's follow up line, but I modified it a bit. The convo went as follows:
Opener on girl: "you look like you're having more fun than anyone else here."
Girl: "blah blah blah"
Me: "Right, so let me guess, you're an Italian girl, from NJ."
Girl: "huh?" ::with a wtf look on her face::
Me: "Well yeah, you're tanned, and kinda loud. You talk with your hands too.." <== neg
Girl: "What!? You... asshole! I'm from PA and I'm Irish, you fucking ass.. blah blah blah.."
Me: "You should be proud. Just accept that you're... blah blah"
As you can see, I just sent the neg straight at her, heating things up quickly. I delivered this with a playful smirk on my face. Not only did I get a reaction out of her without visibly trying to, she couldn't stop talking about me and what an asshole she thought I was. She started pointing her finger in my face, accusing me of this and that...
I threw in another minute of teasing, letting her have just a little bit more, only this time with a slightly more mocking smirk on my face (being careful not to over do it of course).
Me: Really? So you're really not Italian from NJ?
Girl: I'm NOT! You're sooo wrong! Blah blah
Me: But those hands... It's like you're tossing an invisible pizza when you talk. There's no way you're Irish.
Girl: Shut up, you're soo wrong.
Me: Hey guys? You like Italian? pshhhhh
Girl: You know you're just... Blah blah blah
After that minute of verbal exchange, my facial expressions and body language were conveying something like, "hey, this girl is kinda obnoxious, she just can't take a joke. crazy stuff, I'm just havin' fun." So basically, I expanded on that neg, making it look as though she was being the buzzkill (her fault!). She couldn't stand it!
I left her with that expression, turning my back toward her with that sardonically playful grin still on my face, like I had just about had enough of her. I just turned my back, and tried to restart that chill conversation I was having with those guys. I was genuinely more interested in the conversation for some reason, even though I could still hear her talking about me being an asshole. I never reacted to anything she said, I just smirked when I heard her inane insults. A minute goes by, when I notice she's points her finger at me again, and I just responded with that fun smile. All the sudden, she grabs me!
As she's grabbing me, she continues yapping on about how I'm all wrong about her and just some asshole. At this point, things are getting to be fun in my view. I get in her face, with a look that says "don't mess with me honey," this time in a playful yet kinda challenging/sexual way. I grab her hip for a second, remove my hand from the hip for 3, then grab again for 4 seconds, then remove for another 3, then grab and keep them there. While I'm doing this on/off hip grabbing procedure, I'm sarcastically agreeing with her remarks. This goes back and forth for about 20 seconds, with her touching me as well. At the 20 second mark, I said, "you've got a weird piece of fuzz in your hair" and slowly run my fingers across her hair (I've used this line before, works every time).
And that's when my lips were only half an inch away from her lips. Pacing 2 or 3 times back and forth from her lips, coming to that half-inch gap between our lips each time. Building that tension by pacing (thanks Roosh).
But guess what? I WUSSIED OUT.
Conclusion: that aggressive state I put her in (thanks to that condescendingly powerful, teasing, expanded neg) combined with instant sexual tension from touching, created the ultimate hot/cold experience that she'll never forget.
First, let me bring up "negging." If any of you have ever read anything by Mystery or Neil Strauss, you should already understand the purpose and usage of the "neg."
Basic example of Mystery's negs:
"where's her off button."
"wow, you just poop words."
"Is your hair real? looks nice anyway."
These aren't bad, but I don't think they're really worth remembering. I think negs should be a little more improv, otherwise it comes out awkward. Let me explain. I was at this bar near the campus of the University of Delaware, and I saw this hot, drunk college girl, standing in a cornor, surrounded by 5 older guys that were obviously trying to game her. This was objectively the hottest girl at the bar, by all the attention she was receiving. I weaseled my way in the group (or set) by isolating one guy and just having a chill conversation with him. This brought me into their set.
Soon I was talking to all the guys in this group, 2 guys at a time, just having a chill conversation about where everyone is from. I'm not talking to the hot girl yet though, because I was too distracted by the chill conversation I was having. As a result, I sort of took the spot light away from her. About 4 minutes after talking with the guys I looked at her and used Roosh's line, "you look like you're having more fun than anyone else here." She responded with something, but whatever came out of her mouth just went right through one ear and out the other. I quickly responded with Roosh's follow up line, but I modified it a bit. The convo went as follows:
Opener on girl: "you look like you're having more fun than anyone else here."
Girl: "blah blah blah"
Me: "Right, so let me guess, you're an Italian girl, from NJ."
Girl: "huh?" ::with a wtf look on her face::
Me: "Well yeah, you're tanned, and kinda loud. You talk with your hands too.." <== neg
Girl: "What!? You... asshole! I'm from PA and I'm Irish, you fucking ass.. blah blah blah.."
Me: "You should be proud. Just accept that you're... blah blah"
As you can see, I just sent the neg straight at her, heating things up quickly. I delivered this with a playful smirk on my face. Not only did I get a reaction out of her without visibly trying to, she couldn't stop talking about me and what an asshole she thought I was. She started pointing her finger in my face, accusing me of this and that...
I threw in another minute of teasing, letting her have just a little bit more, only this time with a slightly more mocking smirk on my face (being careful not to over do it of course).
Me: Really? So you're really not Italian from NJ?
Girl: I'm NOT! You're sooo wrong! Blah blah
Me: But those hands... It's like you're tossing an invisible pizza when you talk. There's no way you're Irish.
Girl: Shut up, you're soo wrong.
Me: Hey guys? You like Italian? pshhhhh
Girl: You know you're just... Blah blah blah
After that minute of verbal exchange, my facial expressions and body language were conveying something like, "hey, this girl is kinda obnoxious, she just can't take a joke. crazy stuff, I'm just havin' fun." So basically, I expanded on that neg, making it look as though she was being the buzzkill (her fault!). She couldn't stand it!
I left her with that expression, turning my back toward her with that sardonically playful grin still on my face, like I had just about had enough of her. I just turned my back, and tried to restart that chill conversation I was having with those guys. I was genuinely more interested in the conversation for some reason, even though I could still hear her talking about me being an asshole. I never reacted to anything she said, I just smirked when I heard her inane insults. A minute goes by, when I notice she's points her finger at me again, and I just responded with that fun smile. All the sudden, she grabs me!
As she's grabbing me, she continues yapping on about how I'm all wrong about her and just some asshole. At this point, things are getting to be fun in my view. I get in her face, with a look that says "don't mess with me honey," this time in a playful yet kinda challenging/sexual way. I grab her hip for a second, remove my hand from the hip for 3, then grab again for 4 seconds, then remove for another 3, then grab and keep them there. While I'm doing this on/off hip grabbing procedure, I'm sarcastically agreeing with her remarks. This goes back and forth for about 20 seconds, with her touching me as well. At the 20 second mark, I said, "you've got a weird piece of fuzz in your hair" and slowly run my fingers across her hair (I've used this line before, works every time).
And that's when my lips were only half an inch away from her lips. Pacing 2 or 3 times back and forth from her lips, coming to that half-inch gap between our lips each time. Building that tension by pacing (thanks Roosh).
But guess what? I WUSSIED OUT.
Conclusion: that aggressive state I put her in (thanks to that condescendingly powerful, teasing, expanded neg) combined with instant sexual tension from touching, created the ultimate hot/cold experience that she'll never forget.