Bottom line is that cultures which make casual sex easy (especially for the top 20% of men), make pair bonding long term relationships very difficult - and vice versa.
To make things worse, more men in the bottom 80% risk long term inceldom and if they marry, won’t enjoy relationship security and could become suicidal broke incel divorcés.
Even if the influential top 20% of women who tend to be under 25 demanded marriage before sex thus abolishing the hook up culture, the usury system means that few men have the productive surplus to support a mother and children.
Many think the answer is with religious women but their Hypergamy is partly driven by their fathers who want them to marry well.
To make things worse, more men in the bottom 80% risk long term inceldom and if they marry, won’t enjoy relationship security and could become suicidal broke incel divorcés.
Even if the influential top 20% of women who tend to be under 25 demanded marriage before sex thus abolishing the hook up culture, the usury system means that few men have the productive surplus to support a mother and children.
Many think the answer is with religious women but their Hypergamy is partly driven by their fathers who want them to marry well.