The term ‘pre-marital’ sex is an anachronism for most men here.
The term was mostly used in relation to keeping horny, reckless and inexperienced young men patient for a few years until they married. It was used to keep young women chaste so they could attract the best husband material possible.
Young men and young women could see their slightly older brothers and sisters and cousins getting married young so waiting for marriage has its short term rewards.
Now as women are delaying marriage to 29.99 (and rising), men are first getting married in their 30s. If they avoided fornication until marriage, these men will have gone nearly 20 years with an unfulfilled sexual urge and will likely have low self-esteem. Not only that, they will be entering marriage with modern women with a needy frame.
I’m concerned with these men’s mental health during the long years of volcel and in all likelihood the divorced years of middle age when the suicide risk is highest.
Then there are unmarried men over 35, who are meeting divorced women. Is this post marital sex or is this adultery as traditionally taught by Christianity but is conveniently ignored in feminised Protestant sects, which have blessed serial monogamy?
I can see a lot of men going MGTOW. There isn’t much choice left. Save up your money, prepare for retirement and live on a boat. During sexual emergencies, visit a harlot do the deed then continue a carefree life.
Then there is the deviancy risk associated with enforced or involuntary inceldom. The church has a porn problem, Saudi Arabia’s strict control on heterosexual interaction is supported by secret homosexuality, Muslim women’s virginities in the UK is protected by the mass pimping of white girls - I could go on.
Also conservative women in the US are twice as likely to divorce a husband who looks at porn than another group. They also expect husbands to earn access to the marital bed. Porn is the ace card for a conservative wife who has already checked out of the marriage.
The term was mostly used in relation to keeping horny, reckless and inexperienced young men patient for a few years until they married. It was used to keep young women chaste so they could attract the best husband material possible.
Young men and young women could see their slightly older brothers and sisters and cousins getting married young so waiting for marriage has its short term rewards.
Now as women are delaying marriage to 29.99 (and rising), men are first getting married in their 30s. If they avoided fornication until marriage, these men will have gone nearly 20 years with an unfulfilled sexual urge and will likely have low self-esteem. Not only that, they will be entering marriage with modern women with a needy frame.
I’m concerned with these men’s mental health during the long years of volcel and in all likelihood the divorced years of middle age when the suicide risk is highest.
Then there are unmarried men over 35, who are meeting divorced women. Is this post marital sex or is this adultery as traditionally taught by Christianity but is conveniently ignored in feminised Protestant sects, which have blessed serial monogamy?
I can see a lot of men going MGTOW. There isn’t much choice left. Save up your money, prepare for retirement and live on a boat. During sexual emergencies, visit a harlot do the deed then continue a carefree life.
Then there is the deviancy risk associated with enforced or involuntary inceldom. The church has a porn problem, Saudi Arabia’s strict control on heterosexual interaction is supported by secret homosexuality, Muslim women’s virginities in the UK is protected by the mass pimping of white girls - I could go on.
Also conservative women in the US are twice as likely to divorce a husband who looks at porn than another group. They also expect husbands to earn access to the marital bed. Porn is the ace card for a conservative wife who has already checked out of the marriage.