NEW RULES: Casual sex and hooking up can no longer be discussed on the forum
05-23-2019, 01:49 PM
Your forum, your rules. My two cents, for what it's worth from a mostly inactive low-rep poster.
I have been fairly active in a serious Christian social circle for the past two years or so. I have backed away lately for two reasons: a) the women are just as shallow, cliquey and Instagram-obsessed and b) the men are all wimps with zero game who have no idea to attract a woman, let alone keep her. I all too often don't want the company of the men for this reason.
Women want to feel excited. The city might be a cultureless, sex-obsessed blob of degenerates but they know how to do interesting things and have a good, exciting time. Christianity has been made fun of for such a long time in the West, it's officially something the squares in the suburbs do. (Why is something even more stifling like Islam looked at with respect and even awe? Easy - because it's different and exotic, and marrying a hot-tempered barback from Azerbaijan makes for a great love story. Some Catholic from Glencoe doesn't raise the blood pressure in the same way.)
It seems like the best way to land a quality woman is to learn game, get good with them first, and THEN look after making yourself into a a catch.
It's fucked up, but this is the reality of the time we live in.
I have been fairly active in a serious Christian social circle for the past two years or so. I have backed away lately for two reasons: a) the women are just as shallow, cliquey and Instagram-obsessed and b) the men are all wimps with zero game who have no idea to attract a woman, let alone keep her. I all too often don't want the company of the men for this reason.
Women want to feel excited. The city might be a cultureless, sex-obsessed blob of degenerates but they know how to do interesting things and have a good, exciting time. Christianity has been made fun of for such a long time in the West, it's officially something the squares in the suburbs do. (Why is something even more stifling like Islam looked at with respect and even awe? Easy - because it's different and exotic, and marrying a hot-tempered barback from Azerbaijan makes for a great love story. Some Catholic from Glencoe doesn't raise the blood pressure in the same way.)
It seems like the best way to land a quality woman is to learn game, get good with them first, and THEN look after making yourself into a a catch.
It's fucked up, but this is the reality of the time we live in.