[boxwino]

For me it's always been to appeal to the emotional and sexual vs logic. Which is pretty standard I guess. But if you lead, give them a good time and they know what you're about and completely comfortable being physical and sexual and have confidence and take it or leave it and you don't fall into their frame you should be good. You don't have to be direct verbally but if you are physically and mentally that's where I find the best playing field to be