[Conquistador]

Women do not want marriage in general to begin with. The only way any woman will not marry is a) she is way below your league b) she is so attracted you that she is willing to bring bastards into this world. Any women outside of these two categories will require legal marriage. Essentially, they will require you to sacrifice yourself, which means that they will potentially be taken care of if the marriage were to fail. That is the whole risk. Most men would rather have the latter option, even if it means they will get screwed over. Unless you do the Leonard option. Leave the country if she leaves you with your children...