It sounds like you're barely leading the interaction.
You have to be dominant, steer and guide the date and convo to the terms of your liking.
A few thoughts:
Have the girl uber or park in front of your place, so the night ends back up at your place or at least out front.
Parlay that into inviting her in.
During the date drop hints of cool shit back at your place or movies you both enjoy or this killer wine you have, etc.
You get the idea, use those hints to later suggest bouncing back to your place.
Sometimes you just have to be super direct and tell her that you're gonna do X at your place and she should come.
Some girls just want to go home, that's just how it is, it's your job to it's not a shit test and get her back to your place.
You have to be dominant, steer and guide the date and convo to the terms of your liking.
A few thoughts:
Have the girl uber or park in front of your place, so the night ends back up at your place or at least out front.
Parlay that into inviting her in.
During the date drop hints of cool shit back at your place or movies you both enjoy or this killer wine you have, etc.
You get the idea, use those hints to later suggest bouncing back to your place.
Sometimes you just have to be super direct and tell her that you're gonna do X at your place and she should come.
Some girls just want to go home, that's just how it is, it's your job to it's not a shit test and get her back to your place.