ManAbout: You're missing the point(s).
1. This thread is about splitting the check.
2. You're taking the whole alpha/beta thing a bit too far (a common theme on these boards and throughout the manosphere).
3. Paying isn't necessarily alpha or beta, neither is splitting.
I think you're being way too coy. Women pick up on it and it makes it obvious (and/or uncomfortable) when you act in this fashion. I imagine it works but it's far less subtle and may work against you when going for the bang.
1. This thread is about splitting the check.
2. You're taking the whole alpha/beta thing a bit too far (a common theme on these boards and throughout the manosphere).
3. Paying isn't necessarily alpha or beta, neither is splitting.
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I use a technique now sort of like this: when the bill comes, I don't even look in the direction of where it is. I just keep talking to her, with no hint of recognizing that the bill even came. I might stretch, look at my phone, just anything other than looking at the fucker. Then, I might say something like "You ate a lot huh"? Next thing I know, she says something like "yea, let me see the bill, how much did I eat"? I just bow my head and look at my phone and pretend like I'm reading a text or something. Next thing I know, she's reaching in her purse while trying to figure out her portion. Then I follow up with , "how much was mine"?
I think you're being way too coy. Women pick up on it and it makes it obvious (and/or uncomfortable) when you act in this fashion. I imagine it works but it's far less subtle and may work against you when going for the bang.
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