Noir dropping knowledge here.
Thing is, it's TIME, as in you're rolling off her too much and being to aloof.
Chicks have options, they aren't going to wait around, the whole wait 3 dates thing is overplayed and dead.
The best way to avoid this? At the end of your first date - tell her "TEXT ME WHEN YOU GET HOME SAFE"
That leaves the next day for you to text her at your own discretion - you have to strike while the iron is hot.
You aren't losing your frame by doing so - frames shouldn't be so rigid.
Rolling off for 72 hours was a critical misstep here - you can't expect females to make moves like a dude or to make moves at all.
2nd date shouldn't of been on her territory, at maximum, meet halfway between you guys. a coffee/ice cream date while innocent won't fly.
You should've pushed for a cooking dinner date at your place or hers or something similar, pushed for the bang.
Rejection is always better than regret, and at least you know where you stand.
Thing is, it's TIME, as in you're rolling off her too much and being to aloof.
Chicks have options, they aren't going to wait around, the whole wait 3 dates thing is overplayed and dead.
The best way to avoid this? At the end of your first date - tell her "TEXT ME WHEN YOU GET HOME SAFE"
That leaves the next day for you to text her at your own discretion - you have to strike while the iron is hot.
You aren't losing your frame by doing so - frames shouldn't be so rigid.
Rolling off for 72 hours was a critical misstep here - you can't expect females to make moves like a dude or to make moves at all.
2nd date shouldn't of been on her territory, at maximum, meet halfway between you guys. a coffee/ice cream date while innocent won't fly.
You should've pushed for a cooking dinner date at your place or hers or something similar, pushed for the bang.
Rejection is always better than regret, and at least you know where you stand.