Ok i just messaged LA girl and invited her to my city,
Me:Hi lovely, hows your week going (cringe i know)
Her:Hi, good and you?
Me: Good, just work and gym.
Her: good, me school and gym
Me: Ha yup thats why i go all out on weekends, weekdays are boring
Me: what did you have for dinner
Her: chicken soup and im making some fruit salad, you?
Me/Her: "some banter about what i ate blah blah"
Me: I checked out some spring break events but the last one just passed. The beach clubs still get pretty good.
Her: Yeah ive passed through there a while back and looks super fun. Do you go a lot?
Me: nah, just in spring and summer(to the beach clubs)
Me: I have next weekend off so you can come, you can stay the whole weekend
Her: very good
Me: you can take a bus, they are nice and have wifi so you dont have to drive
Her: yeah
Me: Let me know how much it is and ill pay it
Her: oki doki
Her: do you get a hotel near the beach?
Me: yeah i get X hotel
Her:thats a nice hotel
Me: Do you like the beach, i mean swimming and all that
Her: yeah
Me: ok well then we'll plan it., Have a good night
Her: Bye, have a good night.
Ok so although she was very responsive, I kinda got a lukewarm feeling about her wanting to come. As you can see her responses were terse and didnt seem like she was seriously planning to come. Idk its hard to gauge girls sometimes, but i would expect her to ask more questions and kinda plan it out more. I purposely said to let me know how much the bus ticket is that way If she does hit me up then i at least know she looked at ticket prices and might be serious.
Me:Hi lovely, hows your week going (cringe i know)
Her:Hi, good and you?
Me: Good, just work and gym.
Her: good, me school and gym
Me: Ha yup thats why i go all out on weekends, weekdays are boring
Me: what did you have for dinner
Her: chicken soup and im making some fruit salad, you?
Me/Her: "some banter about what i ate blah blah"
Me: I checked out some spring break events but the last one just passed. The beach clubs still get pretty good.
Her: Yeah ive passed through there a while back and looks super fun. Do you go a lot?
Me: nah, just in spring and summer(to the beach clubs)
Me: I have next weekend off so you can come, you can stay the whole weekend
Her: very good
Me: you can take a bus, they are nice and have wifi so you dont have to drive
Her: yeah
Me: Let me know how much it is and ill pay it
Her: oki doki
Her: do you get a hotel near the beach?
Me: yeah i get X hotel
Her:thats a nice hotel
Me: Do you like the beach, i mean swimming and all that
Her: yeah
Me: ok well then we'll plan it., Have a good night
Her: Bye, have a good night.
Ok so although she was very responsive, I kinda got a lukewarm feeling about her wanting to come. As you can see her responses were terse and didnt seem like she was seriously planning to come. Idk its hard to gauge girls sometimes, but i would expect her to ask more questions and kinda plan it out more. I purposely said to let me know how much the bus ticket is that way If she does hit me up then i at least know she looked at ticket prices and might be serious.