There are many threads about kino and escalation on these forums. It sounds like it's more an issue of you being nervous? Start with small kino, touching her back, hands etc in conversation. If you're getting a good vibe and she isn't resisting your touch keep escalating.
If this is truly nerves from your end I wouldn't suggest going for the first date bang so maybe you're better off just going for the makeout at the end if the kino goes well. Key take away is to make small advancements every time you're out. Soon it will become second nature.
If this is truly nerves from your end I wouldn't suggest going for the first date bang so maybe you're better off just going for the makeout at the end if the kino goes well. Key take away is to make small advancements every time you're out. Soon it will become second nature.