Hey guys, pardon the long post. So I approached this cute Ukrainian-American girl during my lunch break, definitely one of the cutest girls I have approached. We only spoke for like five minutes both our lunch periods were over, we work at different places in the city. She seemed to be interested.
I got her number and told her "lets continue our conversation during lunch the next day." she agrees and we meet the next day during lunch. During our meet, I ran game as usual, light touches etc. she was receptive.
She showed some minor red flags to me though, for example, she did not seem to like it whenever I made assumptions about her, most girls usually laugh.
She said, "You like making assumptions don't you?" I told her, "its good to make assumption, that way you wont be surprised if they are true." Also, she said sometimes she can't handle stress. During the conversation, we started talking about art and I wanted to show her some of my drawings on my tablet but I could not get to them.
She was like, "you did not come prepared?" I ignored this and we kept on talking, then I suggested that we hang out at a bar close to my place that weekend and I will show her the drawings then, she agreed. Then as we were parting ways, she said, "next time come prepared," to which I replied, "nah there was nothing to prepare for, right now I just wanted to talk to you."
Later that day I text:
Me: Nice hanging out over lunch
Her: The feeling is mutual
I was going to confirm our weekend meet up, but she tried to switch date venue.
Her: Do you ice skate, if not, willing too learn? there is this place that opened up next to where I live, I have been wanting to go but always too busy or lazy.
Me: I don't ice skate, I dislocated my shoulder trying to ice skate and vowed not to do it again. (This is true by the way)
Her: That makes sense sorry to hear that.
I then tried to re-suggested meeting at the bar I told her when we met that is closer to my apartment, to which she responded,
Her: Hmm I don't think that will work, I've already made plans for something later that evening. Perhaps another day?
Me: Its fine, do what you got to do, let me know when your free
Her: Ok
After this I wanted to drop her because I felt like she wanted to lead, and following her suggestion would be beta and falling into her frame. And my crazy senses were kind of tingling with this girl from our previous meeting, but man, wash she cute.
Three weeks later, today she initiates contact and texts, "Hey sorry work has been crazy for the last few weeks. How have you been?"
She is a lawyer assistant and I have heard bad things about dealing lawyer chicks. So should I try to set something up with this girl and potentially bang her, even if it means risking falling into her frame, or should I maintain my previous decision of dropping her.
Thanks in advance
I got her number and told her "lets continue our conversation during lunch the next day." she agrees and we meet the next day during lunch. During our meet, I ran game as usual, light touches etc. she was receptive.
She showed some minor red flags to me though, for example, she did not seem to like it whenever I made assumptions about her, most girls usually laugh.
She said, "You like making assumptions don't you?" I told her, "its good to make assumption, that way you wont be surprised if they are true." Also, she said sometimes she can't handle stress. During the conversation, we started talking about art and I wanted to show her some of my drawings on my tablet but I could not get to them.
She was like, "you did not come prepared?" I ignored this and we kept on talking, then I suggested that we hang out at a bar close to my place that weekend and I will show her the drawings then, she agreed. Then as we were parting ways, she said, "next time come prepared," to which I replied, "nah there was nothing to prepare for, right now I just wanted to talk to you."
Later that day I text:
Me: Nice hanging out over lunch
Her: The feeling is mutual
I was going to confirm our weekend meet up, but she tried to switch date venue.
Her: Do you ice skate, if not, willing too learn? there is this place that opened up next to where I live, I have been wanting to go but always too busy or lazy.
Me: I don't ice skate, I dislocated my shoulder trying to ice skate and vowed not to do it again. (This is true by the way)
Her: That makes sense sorry to hear that.
I then tried to re-suggested meeting at the bar I told her when we met that is closer to my apartment, to which she responded,
Her: Hmm I don't think that will work, I've already made plans for something later that evening. Perhaps another day?
Me: Its fine, do what you got to do, let me know when your free
Her: Ok
After this I wanted to drop her because I felt like she wanted to lead, and following her suggestion would be beta and falling into her frame. And my crazy senses were kind of tingling with this girl from our previous meeting, but man, wash she cute.
Three weeks later, today she initiates contact and texts, "Hey sorry work has been crazy for the last few weeks. How have you been?"
She is a lawyer assistant and I have heard bad things about dealing lawyer chicks. So should I try to set something up with this girl and potentially bang her, even if it means risking falling into her frame, or should I maintain my previous decision of dropping her.
Thanks in advance