Anglo girls' lack of social skills/want to be approached[Abstract discussion thread]
12-29-2018, 09:50 PM
The absolute base reason for it if you really want to know is this:
Environment.
In Australia specifically, it's a risk-averse culture, with a high quality of living, with a good health care system and public benefits, with very liberal schools and media, with well paying jobs, parents who pay for things for their kids, with highly connected social circles at the top.
Both men and women already have much of what they need here. Most things are in excess - so people take the path of least resistance.
What pressure is there for both men and women here to take more risks, develop more self awareness, be more open, be more understanding, level up as a person, go outside their immediate social circles?
Very little. You've already got a family, a dog, a pet, a job, money, you travel, you probably are going to buy a house.
Let's compare that to a place like Russia.
Way more females than males. Lots of poverty in rural areas. Lots of competition between females (because there are many beautiful girls there). Way less excess opportunities and resources there so you have to work harder for what you get. It's just a lower quality society economically per capita in many ways (lots of very poor families, and standard of living for a lot of people can be harder) than a place like Australia. It's also a different culture to Australia with less liberalism - coming from ex communist times (which were very tough times).
An average girl born in Australia is born with a silver spoon in her mouth. A girl in Russia is more likely to be born with no spoon at all.
Which one do you think has more incentive to build character and engage with the outside world?
It's simple environmental evolutionary pressure.
It's mostly environment that creates most people. Very few people have the focus and willpower to turn out anything different than what their environment encourages them to be.
Environment.
In Australia specifically, it's a risk-averse culture, with a high quality of living, with a good health care system and public benefits, with very liberal schools and media, with well paying jobs, parents who pay for things for their kids, with highly connected social circles at the top.
Both men and women already have much of what they need here. Most things are in excess - so people take the path of least resistance.
What pressure is there for both men and women here to take more risks, develop more self awareness, be more open, be more understanding, level up as a person, go outside their immediate social circles?
Very little. You've already got a family, a dog, a pet, a job, money, you travel, you probably are going to buy a house.
Let's compare that to a place like Russia.
Way more females than males. Lots of poverty in rural areas. Lots of competition between females (because there are many beautiful girls there). Way less excess opportunities and resources there so you have to work harder for what you get. It's just a lower quality society economically per capita in many ways (lots of very poor families, and standard of living for a lot of people can be harder) than a place like Australia. It's also a different culture to Australia with less liberalism - coming from ex communist times (which were very tough times).
An average girl born in Australia is born with a silver spoon in her mouth. A girl in Russia is more likely to be born with no spoon at all.
Which one do you think has more incentive to build character and engage with the outside world?
It's simple environmental evolutionary pressure.
It's mostly environment that creates most people. Very few people have the focus and willpower to turn out anything different than what their environment encourages them to be.