Quote: (12-29-2018 07:35 AM)hunger Wrote:
This is so on-point and I'm glad a discussion around this is forming. Throughout most of my 20s, I was fucking so many women, it was just absurd, and I wasn't even enjoying myself. I was just fucking to pass the time, fucking to build up self-esteem, fucking because I was lonely, fucking because I was bored. Fucking women I didn't even want to fuck, but just could because it was available.
In between fucking, porn porn porn, and hookers hookers hookers. It didn't feel good, I wasn't happy at all, I felt bad after most of those fucks, and yet I kept going. My personal life, work life, and college education all suffered because of it. Those are the hallmarks of an addiction, and yet we never discuss this because men are "supposed to be dogs" and are "supposed to fuck a lot and up their notch count at all costs".
Speaking from experience, I believe this is a fundamentally unhealthy approach to life. If you live this way, you will have nothing to show for it after 25 years but loneliness, STDs and a mediocre job.
Now that I'm 35 and a bit healthier mentally, I truly understand what Napoleon Hill meant when he said that you need to transmute your Libido and channel it into other pursuits. It's also what the Bible says when it advises you to submit the flesh to the spirit.
I still want to fuck all day every day but I make a choice not to because I know that it's not healthy. I've gone down the road and I hope I can prevent other younger men from going down that road.
I know guys who have fucked 400, 500 women, I know a dude who fucked Kate Moss in her prime, and they aren't happy either. Sex is great but it needs to have its proper place inside of the rest of your life structures. Do Jelqing exercises to keep your sexual health going during times when you aren't having sex. I haven't had sex or watched porn in almost a year(except that one time where a girl just made it too easy) and I've never been happier.
You think it's on-point, but I think you're missing the point entirely. The purpose of most discussion here is self improvement in it's many forms
You said ❝men are "supposed to be dogs" and are "supposed to fuck a lot and up their notch count at all costs". ❞ Why would a man be wrongly generalizing men this way? No one here endorses letting your life go on decline over pussy, what is actually encouraged is in stark contrast to what you said, Don't put the pussy on a pedestal, Work on your inner game, don't watch porn or use prostitutes. I really don't see why so many people give this place a bad rap.
Also, if you're 35, how have you got 25 years of experience? You started when you were 10?
You endorse jelqing ?
You reference the bible?
You haven't been laid in almost a year but insist on giving advice to others?
You are a shit poster