Quote: (12-14-2018 01:35 AM)Graft Wrote:
Age is the main reason I'm panicking. Even though I look young, I've been lying by a few years about my age on dating apps. I'm not sure when that number besides my name is going to consistently fuck me over. I don't imagine that when I turn 34-35 it will be acceptable for women in my target age range. I don't feel like I have too many years to pull what I want in the west.
I think the age thing is a legitimate concern. But, you just have to find the girls who like older men.
How many kids are you wanting Graft? If you only want 2 or 3 kids, what is the problem with trying to find a girl 24 - 26 years old? She could still have the kids before she's 30, I don't see what the problem would be there. Even if you were wanting a larger family of 5 or more kids, you just need to make sure that you and your future wife stay on a schedule to have the 5 kids by the time she's 32 or younger. Ideally yes, it would be better for her to be under 30, but it's not like 30 is a hard cut off date set in stone or anything.
I think you're in a lot better position then what you give yourself credit for. My advice would be to stop wasting money on things that "build up your brand". If you're serious about starting a family, much less a larger family of 5+ children, then you need to start saving as much as possible now.
That would be my advice to you - Start saving as much as you possibly can right now. In the future, you'll either use that money to start your family or to retire early. Both options sound like winners to me.
I think you'll be fine OP. It's normal to panic about these type of things, that's probably a biological calling more than anything. You'll be ok man, you got this.