Quote: (12-17-2018 08:19 PM)for.petes.sake Wrote:It depends.
Quote: (12-10-2018 02:31 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:
Quote: (12-08-2018 01:10 AM)for.petes.sake Wrote:
... but after I have done my introductory line (whether it be asking what they drinking or a garment they are wearing) and introducing myself, I seem to always lose the conversation. Like I begin to ask what school they go to or work etc but then the conversation fizzles out. How they I continue the escalation? What should I talk about or keep asking them question like an interview (but I feel like that bores the girls as well.)
Need more details, but maybe a problem of one of the following:
1. You stop rambling and wait for "feedback" - If so, go on and try to include her in the conversation. Keep talking
2. You are unprepared for the conversation - If so, prepare and work on subjects that you can speak of and that may relate to her. Intersexual dynamics, difference between guys and girls, travel stories and whatever.
3. You were not "that amazing" as you assume - In this case you regress to interview mode. Assume the sale and lookup item 1.
It seems to me you are probably unprepared. If you were prepared, then the problem would be rambling.
Work on the stories (have at least 3) then try again
Thanks. Also how long do I keep up the conversation for? The whole night or get digits asap and leave to another venue?
If the vibe is good, continue to escalate physically, even if you got the digits. If it fades, this is usually the time to leave.
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