Quote: (12-04-2018 11:32 AM)TheFinalEpic Wrote:
My analogy here is that you need to play a volume game continually in life, because it creates abundance, and an abundant mindset is where you get to find the gems in women, in business, and everything else. You have choice. You get to pick and choose who and what stays in your life. You're not going to find your 'wife' without going through 1000, 2000, hell maybe 10,000 girls (I'm not saying you need to bang 1000 girls, but in your lifetime, I'm sure you've interacted with well over this number).
What happens when you go through 1000, 2000 or 10,000 girls is that instead of getting closer to finding a wife, you will get farther from it. Humans are not built to build relationships with thousands of people. If you do then nobody will ever be good enough. It gets confusing and our brains cannot handle it. And I think that is a problem for all of us who have been doing this for a long time. We know too much, have met too many women, had too many black pilling experiences and revelations. And now we look at every woman we meet with exceptional scrutiny and doubt.
We should have our doubts obviously. This is a very important decision and the odds are heavily stacked against us. But it makes me wonder if I am ever going to find one that ticks all my boxes. There is always some red flag or something that doesn't add up. Could be that in the world we live in today, a long happy marriage with a young virgin woman of comparable attractiveness to your own isn't possible. It's a pipe dream and will never happen. And with that, marriage in itself isn't possible. Because either you will have to date down and be unhappy, or you will have to settle for a woman who rode the cock carousel and got pumped and dumped by men more attractive than you.
I have had this dilemma in my mind for a while now. Can't fully know until all options have been exhausted though. But if all else fails, would you settle for something less than what you think you're worth? I will not. I can't. If I didn't fuck 300 girls already, maybe I could be happy with a tattooed thot with a loose vagina on her way of hitting the wall. I'm sure most men can, because they're happy they just have a hole to stick it in. But not me. It's too late for that. And my biggest fear is that there is no other alternative.