Alright, there's a lot here. I'm going to surmise the problems you've stated as:
1: Women situation is not ideal. Not sure if you want a girlfriend or just to play the field.
2: Social apathy is growing because your friends are leaving and your social circle isn't where you want it to be.
3: You are apathetic about your job (hence your mind wandering when it's slow, and being totally cool with leaving).
Teach nails the second step, which is absolutely nailing down your dreams and then putting a roadmap in place to get there. The first thing you need to do, however is identify the pain points in your life.
Basically, you will write every major complaint that is causing you distress in your life on a piece of paper. Then, you lay out the steps you are going to need to go through in order to "pay the price" to make that pain go away.
Afterwards you can attack your goals, and the process of doing so alone will help you feel better. The natural condition of man is to feel good when he's making progress and bad when he isn't. It's a barometer that tells you when it's time to take action.
1: Women situation is not ideal. Not sure if you want a girlfriend or just to play the field.
2: Social apathy is growing because your friends are leaving and your social circle isn't where you want it to be.
3: You are apathetic about your job (hence your mind wandering when it's slow, and being totally cool with leaving).
Teach nails the second step, which is absolutely nailing down your dreams and then putting a roadmap in place to get there. The first thing you need to do, however is identify the pain points in your life.
Basically, you will write every major complaint that is causing you distress in your life on a piece of paper. Then, you lay out the steps you are going to need to go through in order to "pay the price" to make that pain go away.
Afterwards you can attack your goals, and the process of doing so alone will help you feel better. The natural condition of man is to feel good when he's making progress and bad when he isn't. It's a barometer that tells you when it's time to take action.