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I think a lot of new guys have a hard time maintaining conversation momentum due to anxiety. I am still in this boat somewhat even though I have progressed.
After asking the "where" question, you need to switch and segway into the ramble rather quickly and not have huge pauses. It helps. This is still a problem of mine that is bigger the hotter the girl is.
Body language compensates for this if you understand it well enough and can maintain it consistently; but for me, the best conversations come from good momentum. Im trying to adjust the eye contact and body language pieces over time.
Imagine a friend you're shooting the shit with.
I think a lot of new guys have a hard time maintaining conversation momentum due to anxiety. I am still in this boat somewhat even though I have progressed.
After asking the "where" question, you need to switch and segway into the ramble rather quickly and not have huge pauses. It helps. This is still a problem of mine that is bigger the hotter the girl is.
Body language compensates for this if you understand it well enough and can maintain it consistently; but for me, the best conversations come from good momentum. Im trying to adjust the eye contact and body language pieces over time.
Imagine a friend you're shooting the shit with.