Subterfuge, I agree with everything you have said.
Being good-looking isn't always a guarantee, but it definitely sets the bar VERY low and you basically have to be full-on autistic to fuck it up with most girls. Whereas if an average guy makes one *tiny* little mistake (one moment of neediness, for example), a girls face can instantly go sour and she is gone.
I, too, have good looking natural friends that girls throw themselves at. And I think not enough men on this forum truly have a friend like that. It is necessary to really understand all this stuff. Having a friend like this is the most frustrating and jealousy inducing thing in the entire world, but it helps at least ground your theories with a dose of harsh reality.
Being good-looking isn't always a guarantee, but it definitely sets the bar VERY low and you basically have to be full-on autistic to fuck it up with most girls. Whereas if an average guy makes one *tiny* little mistake (one moment of neediness, for example), a girls face can instantly go sour and she is gone.
I, too, have good looking natural friends that girls throw themselves at. And I think not enough men on this forum truly have a friend like that. It is necessary to really understand all this stuff. Having a friend like this is the most frustrating and jealousy inducing thing in the entire world, but it helps at least ground your theories with a dose of harsh reality.
Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference