[PapayaTapper]

Beer. You keep looking for big picture answers through little picture "problems".

Take some time and reread some of your posts in the prolific amount of threads you've started:

-Dealing with drama hungry women targeting or trying to ruin you socially.
a beer is enough


-Affect of culture and ethnic background on IOIs and how aggressive women are? ( 1 2 )
a beer is enough

-Outside of getting laid, how did bettering yourself improve your life? ( 1 2 )
a beer is enough


-Social circles that have a lot of good looking women discussion. ( 1 2 3 4 )
a beer is enough


-Making the most out of game while working a white collar or corporate job.
a beer is enough


-The social aspect of moving to a major city in your early 20s versus an older age
a beer is enough

-Opposites attract, better off going for girls of a different ethnic look?
a beer is enough

-In the western world, is hookup culture a young man's game? ( 1 2 )
a beer is enough


-Playing catchup with social life compared to your peers, wondering whats right.
a beer is enough


-Throwing away nice paying career in exchange for fun job when young.
a beer is enough

-Using social media to DHV and build status without coming off as fake.
a beer is enough

-Game as you get older and making transitions to adult life
a beer is enough

-What if a guy spent most of his time on bettering his life and not enough on game?
a beer is enough

-Getting more value out of your weekends.
a beer is enough

In every single one you would benefit from:

- A more positive mindset.

There's a saying they teach race car drivers "Think wall, Hit wall". The Hawaiians have a similar saying "Think shark, see shark".

Over and over you will see similar statements. Robert Greene, Tony Robbins (my personal favorite) the Dalai Lama, Eckhart Tolle, etc etc...they all teach the importance of inner dialogue.

Youre filtering too much for offence against you by others and prevention of "negatives". You need to turn up the gain on your positivity filter

Tangentially:

- A thicker skin.

Stop looking for approval from "them". There is no "them". Its human nature to see "others" as a collective. But guess what? They aren't.

Ever sit in an audience at a live show or concert? What "collective" vs the speaker / performer existed with you and the other people in the audience? Answer: none. You were an individual that just happened to be sitting in that audience. Their (other audience members) perspective and response was independent of yours.

But from the speaker or performer's perspective their level nervousness is directly proportional to the size of the audience. They get more nervous when speaking / playing to a crowd of say 100000 than they do say 1000. But why?

Answer: Its human nature.

But when logic is applied you see this is irrational. The performer (you in life in case youre not getting the metaphor) never addressing a collective but rather individual perspectives and eliciting individual responses

Tangentially: Chill the fuck out

-Understand that youre not as important to anyone else as you are to yourself. Ever see someone trip and fall or otherwise make an ass of themselves? Of course you have. Do you remember it. Probably not. Ever make an ass of yourself? ( Most rhetorical question Ive posted in 2018 homie ) Guess what? No one remembers

Bottom line is its admirable that you want to learn and self improve. But you dont need to start innumerable inane threads about micro aggressions against you to do it. In fact its counter productive

So...

Either start one " a beer is enough's social musings and inquiries: An IRT's quest to becoming Haji Hefner " thread (god forbid) or post your issues in the players lounge and get feedback on them