In my experience it's enough attraction but not enough comfort/trust/rapport built if they're making out but flaking afterwards. In the moment they make out because it's fun. It's an emotional decision. Responding to plans is both emotional and logical. They have to convince themselves its worth their time to hang out with you.
Take the time to genuinely qualify them, build commonality, build a story together.
Sit down and write what you're looking for in a woman and start qualifying based on that criteria.
You gotta make it feel like it's her decision without making her feel like a slut. Lead and steer.
Take the time to genuinely qualify them, build commonality, build a story together.
Sit down and write what you're looking for in a woman and start qualifying based on that criteria.
You gotta make it feel like it's her decision without making her feel like a slut. Lead and steer.