Quote: (11-14-2018 05:03 AM)lunchmoney Wrote:
This is why you should always have another option/plate around. If one flakes, it literally is no big deal, because you have someone who values you and can't wait to spend time with you and fuck you.
It is good to have plates around for that reason. I have gradually moved my mindset away from the strictly "always spinning plates" approach though, because I used to find myself scrambling talking to too many girls at once in an attempt to stay grounded, pulling me off my game.
Even though I am spinning plates, I try to keep enough stuff going on in my life so that I am not prioritizing chasing girls. Work, lifting weights, brazilian jiujitsu, playing guitar, and intellectual pursuits like reading and writing keep me busy and grounded. Do stuff that you enjoy so pussy is not some ultimate goal of pleasure, rather a supplement to your already awesome life.
It's way too easy to get excited about the prospect of fucking a cute HB 8 you have a date set up for, but you need to build some mental fortitude.
I remind myself these things about a girl when I first start pursuing them:
1.) This is just one of BILLIONS of women. I didn't even know her more than a few days ago. I am not going to treat her any better than I would treat anyone else I do not know.
2.) Hypergamy has guaranteed that she is going to have feeble interest at first. Game is a MUST to build a solid foundation of attraction or it's on to the next dick, and trust me, there are plenty desperate guys for her to choose from.
3.) Our interactions will be on my terms at all times, or she can walk. I'm openly dominant and if a girl doesn't like my traditional ways, she's doing me a favor by leaving and sparing me from having to listen to her shit. I am the man, and I lead.