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What would you think if a girl texted you something along the lines of:
"Hey, let's go get drinks friday night. You already ditched me twice so this is your last chance."
My immediate thoughts would be:
1.) I really have this bitch by the reigns. Emotional responses indicate attachment. I'm sure I don't have to tell you this, but excessive attachment is an attraction killer.
2.) She's desperate if she's trying to leverage me into agreeing to hang out by bringing up the "last chance". Displays low SMV. She probably can't get anyone else to hang out with her.
3.) She doesn't have respect for herself. If you don't take yourself seriously, you entertain people who waste your time. Low SMV display. Why would I want to date someone that doesn't take themselves seriously?
Quote: (11-13-2018 03:54 PM)Anchor Man Wrote:
Is it okay to tell her this would be the last time to invite her out ?
Also not in a frustrated tone .
Not specific girl but in general .
What would you think if a girl texted you something along the lines of:
"Hey, let's go get drinks friday night. You already ditched me twice so this is your last chance."
My immediate thoughts would be:
1.) I really have this bitch by the reigns. Emotional responses indicate attachment. I'm sure I don't have to tell you this, but excessive attachment is an attraction killer.
2.) She's desperate if she's trying to leverage me into agreeing to hang out by bringing up the "last chance". Displays low SMV. She probably can't get anyone else to hang out with her.
3.) She doesn't have respect for herself. If you don't take yourself seriously, you entertain people who waste your time. Low SMV display. Why would I want to date someone that doesn't take themselves seriously?