Quote: (11-05-2018 10:25 PM)Off The Reservation Wrote:
Hello new member, you reveal everything needed in your post, and it's all about you not the women. Your homework is to read Duke Main's story.
Your proposed solution is to give up your frame. If you don't know what that means there are many posts, it means your unmovable position as a man. This pursuit is prima facie becoming a man who is pedestaling a woman who does not exist, instead of making life better where you are.
The best women anywhere want a man with his shit together so your plan to get a woman is to become a backpacker and consume your savings?
It sounds like you want a character actor instead of a wife. You are 33 and haven't moved beyond the 7th grade generalizations, white, model, latin, crazy, old.
Can you think of a better plan?
^ I second that. The likelihood of finding a partner that ends up being the right one comes unexpectedly when you're aggressively chasing those other fine pursuits in life (insert whatever).
What else makes you tick outside of just enjoying the comforts of your native culture & merely finding a suitable LTR?
If you haven't found "the one" yet, maybe it's a great idea to take on other:
A) side business ventures,
B) new hobbies,
C) travel to new destinations outside of the bubbles you've been exposed to.
^(I have a lot of married friends who WISH they could do any of the following above but are handcuffed by their situation obviously).
I once again have to agree with OTR bc you still have a LOT to experience in life outside of drifting back to your roots and/or finding a suitable LTR.