Quote: (11-06-2018 01:35 PM)PolymathGuru Wrote:
I don't think you need to go MGTOW but start shifting into LTR position with women.
I'm coming around to the idea FWB is the best arrangement for guys because at least with FWB you have things in common besides just the sex, but the commitment/expectations are low. As you would expect, this is the least attractive option for women because they extract the least resources, but it's a far better deal than they give it credit for given that it avoids all of the high drama surrounding all of the shit-tests and ultimatums that go hand-in-hand with hanging the anvil of huge expectations on top of each boyfriend.
The funny thing about female psychology is they derive so much false comfort from declarations of commitment. Commitment doesn't mean squat considering that all commitment can and usually is eventually undone anyway (including marriage). The quality of a relationship is really not a function of "commitment". All relationships are effectively at-will employment whether they want to acknowledge it or not.