Quote: (11-05-2018 03:32 PM)Jefferson Wrote:
@Deepdiver
I like your text.
The situation currently is that we ended our communication yesterday with me basically saying 'you're loyal to your GF, have a nice life', and her saying 'thanks for everything but you can't control my life, take care'.
So it would be okay to send this text now I take it, I would not need to wait until she reaches out again?
Youre both invested in the relationship so youre both in dread (fear of loss) right now.
You've backed yourself into this corner with the ultimatum and "have a nice life" but you need to stick it out.
Youre in a staring contest now. Whoever blinks first loses
Hold the line and she will blink (reach out) first
Then send the text
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