[lunchmoney]

It's not a gay friend problem, it's a relationship problem. She values that relationship more than the one with you, and it doesn't appear to be changing. While I am new around here, this behavior is something I have been exposed to in my past. She already knows you don't like the guy, and she stills entertains it. Do you really think it's gonna get any better? If this was a girl instead of a gay guy, would it be any different in your eyes?

Unless you are open to being second fiddle to her gay friend talking trash about you, it might be time to explore other options.