[Anchor Man]

(11-03-2018 10:41 AM)GT777733 Wrote:  

(11-03-2018 02:59 AM)Humpty Pump n Dumpty Wrote:  

One phenomena I’ve noticed is that girls will often choose a beta guy AFTER dating an alpha.

Why?

She falls deeply in love with Mr. Alpha. He gives her everything she wants. Good sex, adventure, status. But only when they are together.

An alpha will goe off and fucks other girls, travels for months at a time, ignore her, has his own life, and is relatively immune to manipulation and shit tests.

She can’t control him. She never will. She hopes he will settle down. Time passes. He doesn’t.

Now she loses face socially. Everyone asks is he your boyfriend or what? She starts to feel a ton of negative emotions and pressure. What kind of a relationship is this?

There’s an easy way out. She’s an attractive girl. Accept Mr. Beta. He has no hesitation at giving her exclusivity, financial support, and being an all around doormat. Often she can still cheat and he’ll tolerate it.

There are oher reasons girls date betas too. I see a ton of hot Asian girls with soy boy locals.

Yep I've seen that one.

A girl's friends and what they think of her is such a huge factor. I've even seen it play out that the friends are losers or super conservative/controlling (it can even be her mum or her sisters), and they don't like the alpha because he seems unpredictable or confident to them or even a threat to take her away from them, so the girl chooses the beta because the risk of getting with the alpha and it not working out would mean a potential 'told you so' moment from her friends and a potential falling out during the relationship and no support in the break up. Some girls aren't strong enough to cope with that and stand on their own two feet.

There's so many other reasons as well like you said. Some of the others I've seen are:
- a beta guy might have characteristics that remind her of her dad (some girls go for men that are similar to their father)
Or Alpha guy can have characteristics that remind her of her dad. This goes both ways.
- a guy that puts in over the top effort might be part of her natural blueprint
- the alpha might do one little thing that she says hurt her, and out of spite and an inability to say sorry for overreacting, she stays with the beta because it's easier and more convenient
Girls like the emotional roller coaster . She will get mad now but after days she will crave your attention.
- she might have experienced a rocky/unstable/uncertain childhood or rocky past relationships at a young age and a beta can give her a sense of certainty and stability
An alpha man can have stable relation and actually he provides more security as he has a backbone and stand up to her so he can stand up to anyone.
- she might have a fragile ego and getting with an alpha means she risks that ego getting crushed if he's continually right about things when he challenges her on her bullshit, and if he pulls out of the relationship first and dumps her
You got it wrong my friend. If she has a fragile ego, this means she has a problem and we' re better stay away from her . Plus as alpha man don't have to call her on every single BS. Just let her know nicely from time to time that you know she is lying,....ect. in funny way.
- she might just be lazy and not want to deal with an alpha constantly keeping her on her toes, and making her pull her equal weight in the relationship
- she might have her finances sorted or a demanding job, so emotional support is a big desire for her (over money, looks or status), and a beta is the perfect support partner for this. Whereas, an alpha would leave her feeling lonely and having to deal with her own feelings and reality, because he's off doing his own thing

Who said an alpha can't provide some emotion support . You got make your girl comfortable .The balance is the key.If she called an alpha complaining about something serious, he might listen to her, why not. Again , the trick is balance between being on your purpose or being too clingy to her. Plus beta would listen to her problems hoping he will get sex. Alpha listens to her problem after he got sex and she is invested on him.

Some girls flat out like beta guys, some girls are terrified of looking in the mirror and seeing who they truly are as a person and having to improve (a beta won't force her to look at that), and some girls are just incompetent in some areas despite being very highly functioning or competent in other areas (and a beta will cover those areas better than an alpha)

Alphas have lost out on sex and relationships to betas before, and it will happen again

A lot of guys are clueless about this because most of their knowledge is in attraction, and not what makes a girl feel comfortable

Of course , no size fits all. Yes some girls like beta , but the odds that girls like an alpha is way higher . Also your reasons why girls like betas are non sense