@strikeback
One other thing...
I have nothing against you man. You sound like a good dude
But, from reading what you wrote, I pick up this...
You genuinely believe these women see you individually as special.
This is what you feel from the the way they act around you and the things they tell you, so it must be true right? (women are the MASTERS at stroking their man's ego)
Wrong.
What these women actually like is the way you make them feel.
There's a gigantic difference.
Multiple men can make a women feel good - not just one man. Feelings are 100% replaceable.
Other men may not be able to make these women feel exactly how you make them feel - but they can certainly make these girls feel similar to that feeling. (They just aren't telling you this, or you aren't digging deep enough to find this out)
And close enough is good enough for most women. You just have to meet a certain threshold.
Women are super fluid. They bounce from good vibe to good vibe - whether it's with the same person or different people.
I think a lot of even high value men with wives would be absolutely shocked and dumbfounded how quickly their wives could move on from them because of this.
The lives of famous people are littered with this exact thing
Does all of this mean women are evil? No
But, if you are going to have 'irrational confidence' - have the true understanding of a woman's nature as well, and learn that just because you are replaceable, it doesn't mean you are any less of a man - it's just the way the world works. No man is exempt to that
One other thing...
I have nothing against you man. You sound like a good dude
But, from reading what you wrote, I pick up this...
You genuinely believe these women see you individually as special.
This is what you feel from the the way they act around you and the things they tell you, so it must be true right? (women are the MASTERS at stroking their man's ego)
Wrong.
What these women actually like is the way you make them feel.
There's a gigantic difference.
Multiple men can make a women feel good - not just one man. Feelings are 100% replaceable.
Other men may not be able to make these women feel exactly how you make them feel - but they can certainly make these girls feel similar to that feeling. (They just aren't telling you this, or you aren't digging deep enough to find this out)
And close enough is good enough for most women. You just have to meet a certain threshold.
Women are super fluid. They bounce from good vibe to good vibe - whether it's with the same person or different people.
I think a lot of even high value men with wives would be absolutely shocked and dumbfounded how quickly their wives could move on from them because of this.
The lives of famous people are littered with this exact thing
Does all of this mean women are evil? No
But, if you are going to have 'irrational confidence' - have the true understanding of a woman's nature as well, and learn that just because you are replaceable, it doesn't mean you are any less of a man - it's just the way the world works. No man is exempt to that