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(10-31-2018 04:50 PM)goodington Wrote:  

Yeah, not a pro but also not really appealing either. SA is definitely a crutch for me but being married makes it hard to meet girls out in the wild.

I can only imagine

My only suggestion is to remember attraction game principles still apply even if she's from SA relative to her "pro-ness" (for lack of a better word).

If youre screening out pros and semi pros (as you should) then you should be ending up with girls that are just looking for something different, a thrill, or even just a guy with his shit together who can pay for a nice dinner. So many of the 18-19 are sick of "boys" their age that dont know how to wipe their own ass much less take control of a man / woman dynamic.

The advantage you have in SA is that they start from the assumption that youre a level up. Treat them like a commodity (exactly as Noir described above) and you will maintain that advantage.

Thirst is weakness.

Weakness in a man is anathema to attraction for a woman.

The hotter the woman the easier it is for weakness to "leak" through your game and her to sense it

A truly beautiful woman often has men tell her she's beautiful but rarely has men show her that she's lucky to be fucked by / associate with him

Edit: To kaotic's point normally Id say coffee dates are self imposed barriers, unless your goal is to have coffee. But with SA chicks I think its a good low cost (time especially) way to pre-screen and move the interaction along to a real "date" / bang opportunity. Keep it short and sweet...like the busy affluent guy you are would