A better tactic for 'polarising' or whatever you wanna call it is the imagined relationship.
Talk about couples that fight all the time and then say with a smile "Like you and me.." -wink- "We'd fight all the time."
Take it from there to your imagined relationship together:
"We will be a train wreck, but a beautiful train wreck.."
"Every time we talk about getting back together our friends will all scream "Noooooo!" "
"That check out chick back there just told me that you're bad news and I need to get out while I still can.. Why would someone say that?"
Change/ improve the wording/ lines as you see fit. But its a more fun and playful way of planting the seed/ acknowledging what you are both there for/ talking about escalation between you.
Just keep it light and fun and keep going through the stepping stones, Day 1, Day 2, Day 3. As long as she is having a good time she will go along..
Meanwhile approach/ date other women. Crucial.
EDIT: >>Meanwhile approach/ date other women. Crucial.<<
If you're not keen on doing this then take Rudebwoy's advice and take a break. Get your fuel tanks full of good vibes mixed with piss and vinegar.. re-engage with renewed Tiger energy.
Talk about couples that fight all the time and then say with a smile "Like you and me.." -wink- "We'd fight all the time."
Take it from there to your imagined relationship together:
"We will be a train wreck, but a beautiful train wreck.."
"Every time we talk about getting back together our friends will all scream "Noooooo!" "
"That check out chick back there just told me that you're bad news and I need to get out while I still can.. Why would someone say that?"
Change/ improve the wording/ lines as you see fit. But its a more fun and playful way of planting the seed/ acknowledging what you are both there for/ talking about escalation between you.
Just keep it light and fun and keep going through the stepping stones, Day 1, Day 2, Day 3. As long as she is having a good time she will go along..
Meanwhile approach/ date other women. Crucial.
EDIT: >>Meanwhile approach/ date other women. Crucial.<<
If you're not keen on doing this then take Rudebwoy's advice and take a break. Get your fuel tanks full of good vibes mixed with piss and vinegar.. re-engage with renewed Tiger energy.