How do you guys develop an outcome dependent mindset like the rat?
Mark Manson says by improving yourself to the point where you realize that there's more important things in life than women.
He also says "check your intentions," meaning ask yourself why you are approaching women.
For me, it was to compensate for the inferiority that I experienced in high school... That's why I've been failing for so long: I had the wrong intentions.
When I approach now, I'm trying to change my mindset to something like: "I wonder what's she like? Is she interesting?"
Finally, Pook from The Book of Pook recommends "taking yourself on dates."
He says if you can have fun doing things on your own, then when you do them with girls, it's like they are just along for the ride.
Mark Manson says by improving yourself to the point where you realize that there's more important things in life than women.
He also says "check your intentions," meaning ask yourself why you are approaching women.
For me, it was to compensate for the inferiority that I experienced in high school... That's why I've been failing for so long: I had the wrong intentions.
When I approach now, I'm trying to change my mindset to something like: "I wonder what's she like? Is she interesting?"
Finally, Pook from The Book of Pook recommends "taking yourself on dates."
He says if you can have fun doing things on your own, then when you do them with girls, it's like they are just along for the ride.