This is a very good reminder for me. I (and I assume others) spend SO MUCH time and energy making ourselves better and don't go out and actually approach women.
We come up with excuses and rationalize horrible reasons to save our ego. I often use the excuse that I can't go pickup unless I have a friend with me sort of putting pressure on me to succeed. I seem to have no nerves when I have a friend watching me but FREAK OUT when I do it alone. Unfortunately, I probably won't change anything about my behavior because I have learned this lesson a million times and it hasn't changed my behavior...
We come up with excuses and rationalize horrible reasons to save our ego. I often use the excuse that I can't go pickup unless I have a friend with me sort of putting pressure on me to succeed. I seem to have no nerves when I have a friend watching me but FREAK OUT when I do it alone. Unfortunately, I probably won't change anything about my behavior because I have learned this lesson a million times and it hasn't changed my behavior...