Quote: (10-16-2018 09:43 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:
Quote: (10-16-2018 04:13 AM)OCZ Wrote:
You need to joke more my friend. You need to make some jokes about the things she tells you. Don't answer all the questions she asks directly, you need to be more vague about your life in order to keep her interested on who you are. Remember you are the one that has to lead the conversation, not her. Women these days don't like to get hit in their emotions, because mostn of them have boring lives and it will get them many times uncomfortable. You need to ask her stupid stuff, make fun about her answers, keep your answers vague, indirectly complement her, talk about girls and guys and eventually escalte the conversationt to sex, understand their body language, get close.
It's interesting you say that. So I actually think that one of my problems is that I joke too much. My natural personality is a complete goofball, being sarcastic, and joking around to everything.
There's been dates where I've joked around throughout the date from beginning to end. Teased, been insanely sarcastic throughout the date, etc. But ironically, for all of those, none of them worked out. Not a single one.
Constant joking/teasing/sarcasm can kill dates quickly. It all depends on the girl with whom you're interacting.
While some will enjoy your brand of teasing, banter and push/pull-- other girls with a shitty or incompatible sense of humor simply might not 'get it' and will be repelled.
You need to gauge her reactions early and try to calibrate accordingly.