Quote: (10-15-2018 08:41 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:
Quote: (10-15-2018 06:33 PM)TheScientist Wrote:
Quote: (10-15-2018 06:21 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:
For fitness, boxing did amazing things for me and I truly loved it, I recommend giving it another go. Trainer quality/attitude is very uneven. If you want to PM me your city and the kind of coaching your respond best to, I might even be able to recommend someone that suits your style better. I could also send you some pics of a physique I built from 95% fight sports and 5% lifting, to give you an idea of what a guy without good genetics can achieve with fightsports and even the most minimal lifting program.
I would say a lot of the classic solutions (like opening a cool nightclub) are a lot of work with no guarantee of success, and would be enough work and headache that it would distract you from the stuff you are truly great at.
I'm not in any way supporting or suggesting P4P, but you're in the perfect income bracket to bang endless coeds from S.A. WITHOUT PAYING. The guys that don't actually have the wealthy person gear/lifestyle end up spending money to make up for it. You're the big fish everyone else is pretending to be, you earned it by the sweat of brow (your brain to be more specific) and what you're getting is simply your just due.
There's a guy that does little S.A. vacations in various cities. He lines up dozens of dates with the hottest prospects, makes as many dates as he can and absolutely crushes it. If they're really exceptional, he makes a return trip, or flies the girls out to where is (on the road or at home). Minimal chance of blowback since they don't live in his city (or even know where it is).
wow thank you for this great comment.
Regarding boxing. Honestly, another big factor in me quitting is I was very worried of brain damage if I really got into it seriously. I know some people train boxing but never spar but to me that seems completely stupid since how can you tell if you are getting better if you never actually fight. So it was not only the bad trainer, it was also my worries about damaging my brain if I really did it seriously.
Regarding SA. you are now the 2nd person to suggest this to me. I've known about SA for several years now but it always seemed to me like a really complicated way for guys doing P4P to get laid while lying to themselves/pretending that they are not doing P4P. But I guess I will start researching this strategy.
Would you mind giving a brief explanation of how someone like me would do SA game without actually doing P4P?
Also, keep in mind that I'm black so not sure if/how that changes the effectiveness of this strategy.
thanks again for your comment
To do SA without PfP just follow the outline laid down by the experts in our SA thread. Essentially, you start by pre-screening very heavily that you're NOT into p4p, that you don't want a prostitute, you want a genuine and classy girl to share your lifestyle. When she does awkwardly bring up her "allowance", you get a really disgusted look on your face and say "I thought i made it clear, I'm NOT LOOKING FOR PROSTITUTE." She starts backpedaling, and then she essentially has to fuck you to prove she ISN'T a whore.
I know this sounds silly, but when you completely change to dating dynamic to one where YOU are the one being chased like a flawless blonde with perfect tits, it works. It's a little more complicated than this, but just read though the SA thread, and you'll see plenty of examples of guys pulling it off without pay.
To answer your other question, there are boxing coaches that concentrate on very light contact sparring (a few heavy sessions just so you lose your fear of punches, and everything after that is essentially touch sparring, just the pure technique of hitting without getting hit. Jiujitsu is also another great combat sport that will give you a great body and skills, without ever risking that amazing brain of yours. I know it's not as visually exciting and compelling as boxing, but we have a saying "An ugly art to watch, but a beautiful art to perform."
If you mixed them, you could have a lot of great power punching and technical skills from boxing, along with endless live wrestling with people in jiujitsu that will always let you know exactly where you stand wrestling with another man, and virtually no head trauma.
First, thanks again for another detailed post.
Regarding SA game; you've convinced me that here might something worthwhile with this angle so I will start researching and planning this angle this week.
One question I still have is me being black.
I'm assuming a big part of the SA strategy is you bait the girl by initially appearing to be a great potential provider/boyfriend?
From what I know usually girls look for black guys as more of the lover role in that lover/provider dynamic; i mean if i ask someone to think of some beta bucks/provider I think very few people will get the image of some black guy.
So basically how do you think me being black will play into this SA strategy.
Also, are guys fucking girls 25 and under with this SA strategy?
Regarding jijutsu. thanks for suggesting this. I actually hired a guy to teach me this art a few years ago. he had a great reputation and had apparently trained under one of the gracies.
but then I showed up the first day and he tells me ill actually be training with one of his pupils as he is too busy teaching classes to do 1on1 with me. I insisted i wanted to train with him, he refused so i left and never thought about jijutsu again until today.
BTW, what are your thoughts on the people who criticize jijutsu saying its a terrible art for practical self defense since the last place you want to be in a street fight is on the ground.