Quote: (10-16-2018 09:06 PM)fuckboy_horny_facesitting Wrote:
Quote: (10-16-2018 10:18 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:
Also planning an indefinite stay, unless another foreign country draws me away.
That said, some guys are just not about giving value, they're simply about extracting value, and if all you do is extract value, you're only going to get girls that don't have much to lose, so they're desperately willing to take a chance on a highly speculative, negative ROI play by dating/sleeping with men in that bracket. This refusal to give value will also affect the kind of men these guys attract around themselves, and will also affect their interactions with society in general, and will therefore color their impressions of a place/environment, be it the Anglosphere or some other country.
There's also racial hangups as well, folks with very low self esteem will use race as a way to blow out the candles of others to make theirs shine brighter without actually having to do any work/put in any effort. You hear those folks bandy about terms like "monkeys" and "slum-rodents" to refer to others. When you have an inferiority complex in life, you can put in the hard work required to improve your situation and your mental state, or you can resort to calling other groups of people lazy, monkeys, idiots, etc., and instantly make yourself feel superior, even though nothing about you has improved at all.
On the other hand, if you're legitimately bringing value to the table, value you're willing to share with girls and guys that form healthy relationships with you, then the world can be a very open, friendly place.
Then on top of that, the male brain takes a long time to mature. Guys can read these ideas at 18 years of age and get nothing from them, and then they might come across them at 28 years of age and get a little bit more from them. Then at 38 years of age, things may finally click, and these ideas can become actionable.
It does feel like as men, we're often laying the train tracks as the train is moving forward at a high speed. It's surprising more of us don't derail completely. Perhaps a lot of us do and life just goes on regardless.
No need to try to justify your staying in this ultra low-value place for the rest of your life.
Philippines sucks and talking about it never gets old.
No place I'm at is low value.
Even the dingiest dump gets raised to at least average value by my mere presence there.