The more you make it a big deal, the further away it will be.
I used to be nervous and ''in my head'' - still am sometimes. But the more girls you bang the less of an issue it will be and you will realise that having sex with a girl really is a natural thing and in this time and age (of contraception) it really just isn't that big a deal. Millions have done it before you, millions will do it after.
If I were you I would pay a prostitute for my 1st time (maybe even 2-3 times with different girls) or anything else to that effect (ie anything to force your subconscious mind to accept that you're entitled to sex, and its normal).
I used to be nervous and ''in my head'' - still am sometimes. But the more girls you bang the less of an issue it will be and you will realise that having sex with a girl really is a natural thing and in this time and age (of contraception) it really just isn't that big a deal. Millions have done it before you, millions will do it after.
If I were you I would pay a prostitute for my 1st time (maybe even 2-3 times with different girls) or anything else to that effect (ie anything to force your subconscious mind to accept that you're entitled to sex, and its normal).