[DonnyGately]

I've certainly used that on text along with, 'I'll come over and bring my bondage gear if you're curious' for girls that have their own pad but are skeptical about doing a first meet at my place. In fact, I used that on my latest mid-20s bang immediately after texting her I was only looking for a submissive, kinky girl when the interaction was in danger of staleing. She responded quite positively.