Tactician it's fucked up that when I was a kid "rape" required force or drugging someone.
Now consensual sex can be called "rape" for a variety of reasons. (Most prominent is the "I had two drinks")
The worst is this new "affirmative consent" business. I've never asked "may I stick my penis in your vagina. May I flip you over and hit it from the back, m'lady" GTFO
If she doesn't say "no" (other than while incapacitated) or push you (a physical "no") etc it's consent.
Now consensual sex can be called "rape" for a variety of reasons. (Most prominent is the "I had two drinks")
The worst is this new "affirmative consent" business. I've never asked "may I stick my penis in your vagina. May I flip you over and hit it from the back, m'lady" GTFO
If she doesn't say "no" (other than while incapacitated) or push you (a physical "no") etc it's consent.