Like anywhere you have to calibrate your approach.
There is a learning curve that all of us go through. Some faster than others.
I suggest you re read trip reports and all threads on Colombia and the city you are gonna visit. So medellin being the case look into all threads here.
Now I want you to drop a data sheet. Tell us which places you visited and we can tell you where you went wrong.
So if you went to blue on a Wednesday night or la ruana de Juana on a Saturday night I want to know.
How were your interactions with the girls. What questions did they ask you, were they alone, any unsightly tatoos? Dressed super skanky? Were they from poblado?
Give us a genuine detailed trip report and I'm sure we can help you avoid repeating any mistakes and get you further along on that learning curve.
There is a learning curve that all of us go through. Some faster than others.
I suggest you re read trip reports and all threads on Colombia and the city you are gonna visit. So medellin being the case look into all threads here.
Now I want you to drop a data sheet. Tell us which places you visited and we can tell you where you went wrong.
So if you went to blue on a Wednesday night or la ruana de Juana on a Saturday night I want to know.
How were your interactions with the girls. What questions did they ask you, were they alone, any unsightly tatoos? Dressed super skanky? Were they from poblado?
Give us a genuine detailed trip report and I'm sure we can help you avoid repeating any mistakes and get you further along on that learning curve.