[Kid Twist]

I'm looking to optimize this as well, because in the world of internet and social media, as well as metoo bs, you need to build friends-circles-trust. I'm also weighing the type of people you are selecting for by going to nice places with suit game, for example. Are you selecting for too materialistic generally? I guess you could say that you're in the USA, so it's a given, so don't overthink it because you wouldn't know either way. It seems the sweet spot mid 20s grad student crowd might be the best, if you can find these groups, since they aren't the increasingly demanding girls approaching 30 or already there yet.