[Tiger Man]

(09-22-2018 07:39 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  

I've been going out a bit more in recent weeks, partly due to looking for a job for the weekends (tough sledding there!), and I have actually noticed something that kind of came to my mind when I first started going out. It seems like a lot of us are more than okay with going out alone but I have noticed somewhat of a trend with most hot girls after going out.

In some cases they go out with their female friends but in others, I see a big enough social crowd that has a few guys in it and a fair number of hot girls. Like any other guy who observes this, the question that comes to my mind is what are the guys in those circles doing in order to get that sort of quality. What kinds of activities or things are the guys who seem to have the quality friends and the ones a fair number of good looking women are flocking to are doing with their lives.

The closest I have been to experiencing this is when I was roommates in NYC with a couple of guys who were in a fraternity in college and met up with some of their old crew, many of them sorority girls. It seems like one answer is that a lot of these guys knew these girls growing up or in their college days.

My other thought is that these guys get lucky enough to LTR a hot girl and she just happens to have a lot of hot friends.

I can second the observation about the pre-existing social groups. I have seen a lot of that, I am in a few of those groups myself. As far as the hot girlfriends, hot girls do, often, have hot friends.

Through friends, and a bit through my current gig, I have had the oppurtunity to interact with a lot of people in sales. I think there may be a work-based social circle angle to this as well. I have a friend who works in a division of Diageo. All of the lower-end sales reps are either smooth talking sales guys or hot women. At the end of a sale's quarter, they will all go out and hit up bars in the city. And, it is, as you described, a few guys in suits and a pack of hot girls.

I have seen the same thing in hospitality sales groups. The guys are often put together and competitive. But, there are increasingly more women in these offices than men.

I also have reason to believe that competitive groups like high-market sales are less concerned with "HR stuff", so there is probably a lot of interoffice banging going on. What I can't figure out is how you can enter one of these social circles without actually joining the company. I have been out with them a number of times, but they seem fairly tight.