Quote: (09-23-2018 11:06 AM)Spaniard88 Wrote:
4 rep points so far for being extremely reckless towards his fellow human beings, contracting a virus that permanently alters your life and if you don't have health insurance or money like the OP does, could kill you, and then possibly spreading that virus to others while he was ignorant he had it (supposedly), and now refusing to disclose to potential future sex partners that he has it.
I'm not understanding the praise here. Imagine if you were one of the 150 girls, some of which probably have HIV now, in a third world country, with no resources, your body's falling apart, your parents and siblings get to watch you die early, slowly, in a horrible way, on top of the myriad struggles they've already gone through.
All because OP wanted to get his rocks off and put more notches on his belt.
If someone wants to increase their notch count astronomically, I get it, some of that stuff comes because you're really handsome/successful and have access to that, along with no self restraint at that point in your life. At some point, the guys that have this ability due to a combo of success/looks usually calm down or take necessary precautions before it becomes a problem. On the other hand, for some guys this behavior comes from a deep insecurity. In that scenario, to make up for perceived inadequateness in that area of life in the past, guys go crazy in that area and consequences be damned.
I want to say this.
Think about how valuable slim, pretty American women are. They can have almost any guy they want, they could have a line of 100 guys at their door every day, ready to service their needs if they wanted that. Any dating app or Craigslist back in the day would let a slim, pretty American girl accomplish that. Even an unattractive American girl could easily rack up a notch count over 100 by 19 or so if she wanted to.
Here's the thing though. If something is that easy to accomplish, it's not an accomplishment at all. The accomplishment is having the self-restraint to not engage in that behavior, when you easily could.
So now some of us go abroad, where prostitution is legal and we have the resources to pay, or where the demand for a tall, good looking guy with resources is so high that we can basically bed as many women a day as we're able to get an erection for. Three or more a day even, consistently, in the case of those of us in really good sexual health.
But here's the thing.
Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you SHOULD. Think about how much a lot of the guys on this forum rail on the misbehavior of American women because of those women having the power to behave in that way due to the demand for them being so high. This thread, and others like it, show that men can behave just as poorly when given the power to do so.
Don't be that guy. Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you SHOULD.
Look, nobody's going to hold it against you for being a virgin until 22 or whatnot due to, in your own mind, being too short, too socially awkward, too shy, whatever. You're not any less of a man. We all develop socially/sexually at different times. Move on from whatever hangups you have, live in the present, and let those hangups go before they consume you and the people around you.
That needed to be pointed out so badly...
There's something inherently wrong about repping a guy "for being honest" when he was still banging chicks, knowing he had HIV, and not telling them.
Yeah... Way to be open and honest... What if he did that to your sister? You'd probably want to wrap a tire iron around his head.